Imagine a quiet corner, a tray of soft sand, and a collection of tiny worlds waiting to be born. That’s the heart of sandtray therapy, a beautiful way we help our children explore their feelings and stories here at Shearwater. It’s not about ‘fixing’ anything, but about creating a safe space for them to simply be.

We know that school life, even in our nurturing environment, can sometimes feel overwhelming. There are friendships to navigate, lessons to learn, and big feelings that don’t always have words. That’s where the sand comes in. It’s like a gentle invitation to a child’s inner world, a place where they can speak without needing to say a word. Think of it as a kind of magical playground for their emotions. They can choose from little figures – animals, people, trees, anything that catches their eye – and arrange them in the sand. Maybe they’re building a peaceful garden, or perhaps a stormy sea. It’s all their own, a reflection of what’s happening inside, no two sandtray worlds are ever the same.

Why do we love it so much? Because it’s a way for children to connect with themselves, to understand their feelings a little better. You know how sometimes it’s hard to explain what’s bothering you? Well, the sand lets them show us, without pressure. It’s like they’re telling a story with their hands, and we’re listening with our hearts.

It’s also amazing for helping them learn to manage those big feelings. When they’re creating their sand world, they’re learning how to calm themselves, how to find peace in the midst of any ‘storms’. And when they feel more grounded and secure, they’re ready to learn, to play, to connect with others. That’s what we mean by school readiness – it’s about being ready in your heart, not just in your head.

Here, in our Steiner way, we approach sandtray with such gentleness. We understand that each child is unique, a precious individual on their own special journey. We hold their stories with reverence, knowing that what they share in the sand is sacred. We’re not trying to analyse or interpret, but simply to offer a safe and supportive space for children to express themselves. We believe that by nurturing their emotional wellbeing, we’re giving our students the strongest foundation for a fulfilling life. It’s like planting seeds of confidence and resilience that will blossom as they grow. And just like in our gardens, we know that gentle care and patience are what help things truly thrive.

So, when you see a child playing in the sand, remember it’s more than just play. It’s a journey into their own heart, a quiet conversation with themselves, and a beautiful way to grow. And we’re honored to be a part of it.

Karena Williams
Numeracy and Literacy Intervention and Sandtray Therapist